| Location | °☆ °belfast°☆ ° Shankill |
| Age | 41 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 13/10/1965 |
| Date of Death | 09/02/2007 |
| Visitors | 10,464 since 02/09/2007 |
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JIM (BUFF) HILL
9TH FEBRUARY 2007 AGED 41
JIM'S MUM (GLADYS) & DAD(JIM) HE HAD 1 BROTHER(MARK) & 1 SISTER(NICKY)2 NEPHEWS PHILIP & TYLER
THIS IS A TRIBUTE TO MY BRO WHO I LOVE AND MISS SO MUCH...HE WAS ALWAYS LOOKING OUT FOR ME, HE WAS
MY BIG BRO..FROM WHEN WE WORE KIDS HE ALWAYS STOOD BY ME,I COULD TELL HIM ANYTHING HE ALWAYS
LISTENED. JIM GOT THE NICKNAME BUFF IN WHICH IT CARRIED ONTO HIS BROTHER AND ME.MY PARENTS MISS
THEIR SON VERY MUCH,THEIR HEARTS ARE BROKEN FOR HIM& WILL TILL THEY MEET OUR JIM AT HEAVENS
DOOR.WHAT THEY WOULD LOVE JUST TO HAVE THEIR BIG SON BACK AND PUT THIER ARMS AROUND HIM.NO PARENTS
EVER THINKS THAT THEIR CHILD WILL GO BEFORE THEM IT IS SO HEARTBREAKING FOR THEM.
JIM WAS ALWAYS RAKING PEOPLE ABOUT AND HAVING A LAUGH AND HAD NO BACK DOORS IN HIM, ONLY HIS FAMILY
KNEW WHICH WAY TO TAKE JIM,,OUR JIM TOLD PEOPLE WHAT HE THOUGHT.HE ENJOYED HIS WORK,,WORKING AS A
PRIVATE TAXI DRIVER.JIM HAD SO MANY FRIENDS FROM HIS SKINHEADS DAYS WHICH HE REALLY LOVED,RIGHT UP
TO MODERN DAY.. JIM HAD ALOT OF FRIENDS WHO LOVED HIS PERSONALITY COS OF HIS JOKING.AT A PARTY HE
WAS ALWAYS THE MAIN CHARCTER COS HE WAS SO FUNNY..OUR JIM WAS THE LIFE & SOUL OF A PARTY.. FRIENDS &
FAMILY IN CANADA WHERE HE FREQUENTLY VISIT,HIS INLAWS..ARE GONA MISS HIS FUN AND LAUGHTER. OUR JIM
CALLED ME HIS WEE SIS OR NIC NAK ME .OUR JIM & I HAD A BOND WHICH NO ONE COULD BREAK..& I MISS MY
BRO SO MUCH.
BUT MY BRO STARTED TO BE NOT HIMSELF NOT JOKING ABOUT. SORT OF FELL INTO DEPRESSION WHICH IS A
ILLNESS,, BUT WAS TRYING TO HIDE IT,,SO HE FELT HE NO LONGER WANTED TO BE ON EARTH ANYMORE. ON THE
MORNING OF 9TH FEBRUARY2007, JIM QUIETLY TOOK HIS OWN LIFE, 5 MINUTES FROM WHERE ME & MY MUM LIVE.IT
WAS A PASSER BY WALKING HIS DOG FOUND JIM, HE TRIED EVERYTHING BUT MY BRO HAD GONE:(. WE WERE LEFT
WITH THE QUESTION WHY? & IF ONLY..
THAT IS THE DAY I WILL NEVER FORGET,FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. I REMEMBER EVERY DETAIL OF THAT
DAY,TIME OF CALL ETC: IT WILL NEVER LEAVE ME...IT WAS A SHOCK TO THE WHOLE ENTIRE FAMILY AND HIS
FRIENDS..HE WAS SO WELL LOVED HIS FUNERAL WAS ABLE TO SAY IT ALL.. LIFE IS NOT THE SAME ANYMORE,
APART OF IT HAS BEEN TAKEN AWAY..I OFTEN GO TO THE SPOT WHERE OUR JIM KILLED HIMSELF & LAY FLOWERS
I HAVE PUT A BRASS PLATE WITH THE WORDS IN LOVING MEMORY (JIM BUFF HILL).
ON THE 11TH MAY 2007 JIM'S GOOD FRIENDS HELD A MEMORIAL DOO FOR HIM THE PLACE WAS PACKED OUT IT WAS
A SAD NIGHT TOO, AS MY BROTHER WOULD OFF ENJOYED IT,BUT I KNOW OUR JIM WAS THERE IN SPIRIT.AS IN ONE
OF THE PHOTOGRAPHS FROM THAT NIGHT THERE IS A ORB RIGHT BESIDE ME & MY MUM IF OUR JIM WAS SITTING ON
THE NX CHAIR TO US WHEN THE PHOTO WAS BEING TAKEN.
BUT ONE DAY I KNOW MY BRO WILL MEET US ALL AGAIN AND THE CHAIN WILL BE LINKED.
LOOK DOWN ON US BRO AND LOOK AFTER US AS WE KNOW YOU ARE BY OUR SIDES
WE ARE ALL MISSING JIM SO MUCH WHAT WE WOULD DO JUST TO SEE HIS SMILE AGAIN,AS HE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE
FOR EVERYONE:(
(THIS IS A POEM A FRIEND OF MINES(VANESSA ROBINSON) WROTE FOR ME)
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YOUR BRACELET LINKS AROUND MY WRIST SHINES OF SOLID GOLD,JUST LIKE THE PICTURE HERE,OF US YOU
PROUDLY HOLD.THE PAIN I HAVE I CANNOT HIDE,BUT LOTS OF HAPPY MEMORIES WE CHERISH WITH SUCH PRIDE.I
WISH I THAT I WAS THERE TO SEE YOUR PAIN.I'D WRAP MY ARMS AROUND YOU AND BEG YOU NOT TO GO,BUT SADLY
LORD THAT CANNOT COME TRUE,SO LORD I'LL SPEAK TO HIM THROUGH YOU.TELL HIM HIS WEE SIS HAS CRIED SO
MANY TEARS,OUR PARENTS HEART ACHE EVERY DAY AND WILL FOR MANY YEARS,I VISIT YOUR PLACE WHERE YOU
DIED LAY FLOWERS AT THE SAD SPOT,JIM MY SPECIAL BRO YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOT,YOUR MEMORY WILL LIVE
ON FOREVER,,
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R.I.P BRO LUV YA LOADS I'LL NEVER EVER FORGET YOU I'LL KEEP YOUR MEMORY ALIVE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
YOU ARE MY ANGEL
FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS & ETERNALLY MISSED♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
UR WEE SIS XXX
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`·.¸(¨`·.·´¨) ¸.·´WE MISS YOU SO MUCH JIM XOXOX
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°☆ °·°☆ °·°☆ °·°☆ °·PLEASE FEEL FREE TO TAKE A LOOK AT THE VIDEO I MADE FOR MY
BRO °☆ °·°☆ °·°☆ °·
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When the pain and grief are over
When it's my time to be by your side
I know you'll be waiting for me
And will greet me with arms open wide
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Until then I'll go on living
Though the light in my life has gone
The road will be long and lonely
But I'll bear up and try to be strong
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I pray that angels will guide me
Help me to get through this pain
Give me the strengh to go on
Till we are together again love you son.xx
copyright Ingrid Aspey 2009
♥ `*•.� 13th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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...........|.....|..........With love as always Linda.xxx
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SEE YOU IN MY DREAMS.......
HOW LONG DO MY TEARS TAKE TO DRY
I GUESS IT'S FOREVER BECAUSE I ALWAYS CRY
I MISS YOU SO MUCH MORE THAN I CAN TELL
IT SEEMS LIKE I AM LIVING A NIGHMARE A LIVING HELL
I AM SO LOST WITHOUT YOU I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
NOTHING ON THIS EARTH WILL EVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU
I LONG TO FEEL YOUR ARMS AROUND ME HOLDING ME TIGHT
HELPING ME GET THOUGH EACH AND EVERY NIGHT
MY HEART ACHES WITH SADDNESS I LONG FOR YOUR TOUCH
HOW HARD IT IS TO LIVE WITHOUT SOME ONE THAT I LOVE SO MUCH
EVERY MEMORY YOU LEFT IS MINE TO KEEP
COME TO ME IN MY DREAMS WHILE I SLEEP......
xoxoxox
copyright� Rosalind Roberts 12/11/09
Sending Love
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ALTHOUGH THE SPACE BETWEEN US
MEANS WERE MILES AND MILES APART
I'LL KEEP YOU CLOSE BESIDE ME
AND FOREVER IN MY HEART.
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BLESSINGS TODAY AND ALWAYS,
Linda
`*•.� 10th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Love Shines Through
Like a shadow in the moonlight
Like the whisper of the seas
Like the echoes of a melody
Just beyond our reach
In the shadow of our sorrow
Past the whisper of goodbye
Love shines through eternity
A heartbeat from our eye
By : Catherine Turner
♥ `*•.� 11th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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TIME WILL EASE THE HURT
by Bruce B. Wilmer
The sadness of the present days
Is locked and set in time,
And meaning to the future
Is a slow and painful climb.
But all the feelings that are now
So vivid and so real
Can't hold their fresh intensity
As time begins to heal.
No wound so deep will ever go
Entirely away;
Yet every hurt becomes
A little less from day to day.
Nothing can erase the painful
Imprints on your mind;
But there are softer memories
That time will let you find.
Though your heart won't let the sadness
Simply slide away,
The echoes will diminish
Even though the memories stay.
♥ `*•.� 12th NOVEMBER 2009 ♥ `*•.�
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Memories ?
Memories fill the empty space
Where you used to lie
Tears flood my eyes
As I see your face
Your smile
I hear your voice
The humour
I smile...
God Bless You Beautiful Angel
With me all the while
My memories
Take me straight to you
Bridge time and space
Uniting us forever
In an unbroken embrace
Have A Lovely Week My Friends.
With Love Always Linda.xxx
10TH NOVEMBER 2009
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~Life Beyond ~
Let them go, but not completely.
Hold on to them, but not too tightly.
Love them as you know you will,
as you always have.
Rejoice that they are well, the only difference
now is that you cannot see them,
But you feel them still and they will always be with you.
The spirit does not die as the body dies
and Love is of the spirit.
Nothing you have experienced together can be taken from you.
And your loved one shall be eternally yours in that love.
Weep not too long, that they may also cry,
But rejoice in their life and in yours also.
Let yours continue to be a celebration of all life; of your shared love,
Knowing that God holds you both in the palm of his hand
And in loving you both shall reunite you.
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LIFE IS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU.
THE SUN STILL RISES IN THE EAST
AND DARKNESS FALLS AT NIGHT
BUT NOTHING NOW SEEMS QUITE THE SAME
EACH DAY IS NOT SO BRIGHT
THE BIRDS STILL SING, THE FLOWERS GROW
THE BREEZE STILL WHISPERS, TOO
BUT IT WILL NEVER, EVER BE
THE SAME WORLD WITHOUT YOU
IT,S SO SAD THAT YOU HAD TO GO
YOUR LEAVING CAUSED SUCH PAIN
BUT YOU WERE VERY SPECIAL
AND EARTH,S LOSS IS HEAVEN,S GAIN.
SORELY MISSED :( XOXOX
Thinking of you xxx
There is a beautiful garden,
In a far away land,
Where God and this sweet angel
Walk hand in hand,
How lucky God is
To have such a treasure
Take care of this angel Lord,
Forever and ever x x
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Love Linda
was up at your garden today son as this is remembrance sunday but we remember every day that you have left us.it was a lovely day but sad to see so many people crying and thinking of their loved ones love you son.xx
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Tributes For Week Starting 9th November
FOR MONDAY
Your presence I miss,
Your memory I treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never.
FOR TUESDAY
Loving you is easy,
We do it every day,
Missing you is a heartache,
That never goes away.
FOR WEDNESDAY
No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why.
FOR THURSDAY
Memory is a lovely lane,
Where hearts are ever true,
A lane I so often travel down,
Because it leads to you.
FOR FRIDAY
Wings Of The Angels
A gentle wind blew cross the land
Reaching out to take a hand
For on the winds the angels came
Calling out a mother's name.
Left behind, the children's tears
Loving memories of the years
Of joy and love, a life well spent
And now to God a mother's sent.
On angel's wings, a heavenly flight
The journey home, towards the light
To those who weep, a life is gone
But in God's love, 'tis but the dawn.
FOR SATURDAY
If I Had One Last Day
If I had one last day
To tell you what's inside
I'd tell you that I'm sorry
For all the times I've lied
I'd tell you that I need you
To hold my hand today
I'd tell you that I love you
I'd ask you, please, to stay
You'd look at me and smile
The way you always would
And say "I'd love to stay,
If only I really could"
Then you'd laugh the way you did
Whenever I was blue
You'd wipe my tears and whisper softly,
"Don't cry, I love you too"
If I had one last day
I'd love you from the start
I'd stop hiding how I feel
I'd say what's in my heart
If I had one last day,
I'd say my last good-bye
And that even though you are far away,
In my heart, you'll never die.
FOR SUNDAY
Cry Not My Friend
When you wake up tomorrow
And I am no where to be found
When you scream out my name
To the emptiness around
When every beat inside your heart
Is skipping and unsure
Cry not my friend for I am here,
Inside your love so pure
When the waves that used to touch our feet
Have gone back out to sea
When everything you once held dear
Was lost when you lost me
When the sun that once lit up your face
Is setting far away
Cry not my Friend for time shall pass,
But my love for you will stay
When age arrives and children play
And pain creeps up on you
When loved ones show you happiness
That your life never knew
When all of your expectations are met,
No matter what the pain
Cry not my friend, for I am waiting
To hold you once again
When beauty in your eyes turn grey
And all of the rainbow, white
When strong undying hearts
No longer feel an urge to fight
When winter snows become more pain
Than beauty in your heart
Cry not my friend, for I am here
And we will never ever part
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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